Free time? Really? I disagree. What do you think? ;)
money doesnt buy happiness but i cant say id be upset in the least bit if i suddenly inherited 5 million dollars
Procrastination is not typically a function of laziness, apathy or work ethic as it is often regarded to be. It’s a neurotic self-defense behavior that develops to protect a person’s sense of self-worth.
You see, procrastinators tend to be people who have, for whatever reason, developed to perceive an unusually strong association between their performance and their value as a person. This makes failure or criticism disproportionately painful, which leads naturally to hesitancy when it comes to the prospect of doing anything that reflects their ability — which is pretty much everything…
Because it is rewarding on the short term, procrastination eventually takes on the form of an addiction to the temporary relief from these deep-rooted fears. Procrastinators get an extremely gratifying “hit” whenever they decide to let themselves off the hook for the rest of the day, only to wake up to a more tightly squeezed day with even less confidence.
Once a pattern of procrastination is established, it can be perpetuated for reasons other than the fear of failure. For example, if you know you have a track record of taking weeks to finally do something that might only take two hours if you weren’t averse to it, you begin to see every non-simple task as a potentially endless struggle. So a modest list of 10-12 medium-complexity to-do’s might represent to you an insurmountable amount of work, so it feels hopeless just to start one little part of one task. This hones a hair-trigger overwhelm response, and life gets really difficult really easily.
Gotta reblog this again cause it’s painfully relevant to my life
How to get into college in 1983: get good grades
How to get into college in 2013: get good grades, speak six languages, be a rocket scientist, and end world hunger
How to pay for college 1983: Work part time and summers. Maybe take out minimal loans.
How to pay for college 2013: Which of your organs is the most valuable?
chanyeol being chanyeol (attention whore lol)
baekhyun’s face after giving up for being too short and then chanyeol comes over to stand infront of him PMSL
I still find it weird how sometimes I have these dreams about my significant other. It’s really rare, but it happens. When I wake up, I don’t remember how he looks like. But I know that when I was dreaming, I always feel super comfortable being around (that figment of imagination) him. It’s soooo weird.. because I am pretty sure it’s not a guy I know (since i don’t have any romantic feeling for anyone in rl) and it’s not an idol. :| I don’t even know how to explain this. Wow, I am going to stop now, bye.
The sexual tension between two people when one of them says “make me”